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Hi.

I have read the introduction pages to your site and feel quite encouraged.

I will commend your site to my partner in the hope she may at least read those pages and decide whether she wishes to find out more about how partners cope with their situations.

Thank you for at least being here.

Sarahw

Hi,
Firstly a big thank you for the thorough, honest information on this site, its been invaluable to me and my peace of mind since I found out my partner was TV. The fact that so many people will share their experiences in order to help other people understand what is happening to them and their partners is commendable.
Secondly, I don't seem to be able to access the forum either. I can get onto chat and rogues gallery but no forum.
Can you help?
Sheila

AJ
you should be able to access the forums, I've looked at what I am able to and as far as I can tell all is enabled for you, however I will consult our computer guru to see if she can see any problems, not many people seem to want to post in the forums so they are very quiet... but it would be lovely if somebody started a new thread!!!!

Yours Roadiemum

I am a newbie here. I have joined the site, I can see the rogues gallery and I can join the chat. Is there a forum as well?? The forums tab just takes me to member login, chat and gallery. I am not very computer savvy so am I missing something? Or is there no forum, just chat. Thanks for the help, AJ

Regarding access to the site, as stated elsewhere acceptance to the site is not done automatically, it relies on volunteers to check the site emails, this means that acceptance may take up to a couple of days. Please be patient.. Thank you. In the mean time if you need urgent help ring the help line or email us and we will try to offer help and support as quickly as we can. Thank you.

Cattmark... if you are needing to chat with someone, email us and we arrange mutual time.

Hi I have only joined this site today but I can not go onto the chat pages not sure why??

I can't conect to the "chat" any reason why??

never anyone on this site to chat to and i have tried for a few weeks now.

Hi
Thank you for using the link for the Boston Belles Transgendered Support Group, it is currently pointing to a defunkd page.
Would you please be so kind as to point it to
http://boston-belles.co.uk

Thank you so much

Warmest Regards, Lots of Love & Best Wishes.

Belinda XXXX

Founder & Chair of the Boston Belles Transgendered Support Group.
http://www.boston-belles.co.uk
Founder & Vice-Chair of Lincolnshire Kaleidoscope
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/LincolnshireKaleidoscope
Local Area Organiser of the Beaumont Society for East Lincolnshire.
http://www.beaumontsociety.org.uk/
Chair of East Division Police Independent Advisory Group
&
Chair Lincolnshire Strategic Independent Advisory Group

Great site well done. We all need help at times and it's nice to know there's someone out there we can all turn too. One thing I would like to say and this is aimed mainly to all the female partners: however you find out about your husband/partner's disposition as a 'T' person and before you pass judgement bare in mind that inside they are not different from the 1st day you met. My husband is a 'T' persone and I only found out 1 year ago having known him for 13 and married to him for 10, I will not deny that I was taken back a bit not to say the least, and he thought that was the end of us. But I realised one thing that it did not change the person I married. He still has all the star qualities he had and always have had. You can find a lot of support and confort in one another still and probably more. Finding out, has made us stronger and I hope there be more of you like us. I wish you all well.

Thank you for all the open and honest things which are on this site. I'm hoping it helps me to be more understanding .

I'd like to congratulate and applaud the sensitivity of this site and the articulacy which has been applied to writing about what sadly remains a difficult subject. Well done all you who wrote and/or manage this site.

If I may, I'd like to add a word of advice, which may well have been said elsewhere but another view isn't going to do any harm!

Many crossdressers will of course already be so even before they consider entering into a relationship with anyone, male or female. Basically, I would rate myself as strictly heterosexual, I've been married 4 times which should be evidence in itself. Though I discussed and to some extent practised a form of cross dressing with my two previous partners, they accepted it only in a minimal way.

When my 3rd marriage broke-down and I fell in love with my 4th wife...with whom I have to say, I KNOW I shall spend the rest of my life, BEFORE we started a physical relationship, I was candid and open about my penchent for crossdressing. I have to say that | was fairly confident that she would not only understand but applaud and encourage this side of me. We had known each other for two years (she was a postgraduate studying with me!), and was quite sure of her reactions.

She pointed out, quite rightly, that many women (she'd been married to a very repressive and repressed man before me), are also repressed about BEING a woman!! This means of course that they have little confidence about 'dressing' and behaving as a woman should/can. These ARE issues for any male crossdresser out there to consider. IF you are sure you really can't give-up this thing...and why should you...it's actually quite NORMAL in our species....please choose carefully the KIND of woman you wish to partner....

If you are sensitive to the feminine in yourself, the chances are that you will be equally sensitive to the feminine in her. The ideal state for 'gender' is not to be self-concious and thus repressed about it. Remember, please, the best sex and the best conversations are when you don't notice that it IS sex or a sexual conversation. Sex (and sensuality) is a language and an art form as diverse as the stars...enjoy that diversity...and keep open to the richness that simply being sensual brings, and the erotic possibilities it releases..

Best of luck to you ALL.......and let's corrupt the old Navy toast a little.....'let's drink to our wives and mistresses...may the two never meet'...and replace it with'...'to the wife and mistress, may they live together in harmony and creative fulfilment'!!

Edward (or Yvette)...both of course!

Thank you for having this site - it's nice to feel the support even from around the world. I'm coming to terms with the reality of never being what I so desperately want to be: truly female... that I will always be in that in-between stage. My family in the States might suspect, but they don't know that I've been on hormones for almost 5 years now. I don't look very feminine, despite the fact that oestrogen has been somewhat effective. At least I have a fairly understanding partner - that means the world to me.
Living with the stigma of being "transsexual" and never achieving "womanhood" is something I'm prepared to face. I think more needs to be said about it: not all of us are going to be able to become convincingly female.

This really is an excellent site, full of good honest information. Honesty being the only thing that will get anyone through this challenging journey, and especially wonderful to read people's moving accounts of their experiences. So when is a good time to chat? where is everyone? Especially wives of TS/TGs because that's where i'm heading and I don't have a map!

Having looked at the sites and places available to partners i can honestly say this is by far the best site i have ever come across, i have got so many answers without ever having to feel i have to discuss my personal situation and i just want to say a big thank you to all those who set this up, it is marvellous !

Fab site, excellent and thanks to moonbeam for all her help, carrie x

Really great site.

I was particularly interested in the articles and was very moved by Kimberley's life story.

I don't need a site such as this but I'll look in now and then because there's some very good stuff here.

Good work.

A great site. I have been able to come out the other side of an extremely difficult situation. I feel very much I am not alone any more and I am looking forward to chatting to other people who are in a similar situation. I could not have reached where I am without the support of Lady Penn and Roadie in particular.

A great site has helped me and my partner so much, something we can use together and discuss its brilliant thank you all so much x

Hi - just found this site from trhe transliving forum. As time goes on I think this will be an excellent place for my wife to find help and advice - I will definately be suggesting it to her.

Thank-you to all involved; partners need so much help at what can be a very stressful time.

Claire xxx

wow this site is so good and has helped me so much with so many issues i have ,,and has answered many questions that i had running around in my head as its not easy living with a tg ,big thank you keep up the good work,,

Angie

Well done. You have a great site here. I hope others also find it informative :)